When you begin to share with your partner you have to take into account that God created men and women differ in the way we think, act and respond to situations. Sensors we women are emotional and men are logical thinkers, so when we talk express what we feel and hear everything that we receive as an emotional experience. Instead, the man speaks of what he thinks, and get what sounds like mere information.
why it is so difficult sometimes they understand us, for example I do not know if you often expect their reactions they never do because maybe we said or did something for the embrace us and tell us how precious my love but they like the moon does not see anything, and that affects us because we feel everything we do not value it. We are of specific details but men think differently, and I tell them, is to get sick for a presentation that was my hubby in college, and when I come home I say, I love how you did? Had many people tell me that you said my life ... -The answers: I did very well ... and then that and I (I opened my big mouth) peroooo tell me my love, then I say, ask me heaven, then start again, my love tell me there were many people, you said jury and feel that was your job. A few minutes passed and I replied: sky on Saturday I have to go to college because it restates love and like I said I did very well. I do NOT know if a woman is identified with me or something similar has happened. Today I want to leave me some recommendations to help me to understand correctly and make my hubby talk more and I learn to listen more:
Watch your partner: I learned that my eyes should be in my family to see the body language and and understand their feelings.
Ask questions: The questions do help me understand better what you are saying: Tell me, and what happened?, And not fall into misconceptions.
DO NOT stop: I must confess that I was hard and often Mine me share something important to him and I got distracted and interrupted and cut what he was trying to tell me that you should pay close attention.
NOT change the topic of conversation when I touch answer not change the subject until your partner answer the questions or if you both agree to change it and restart later.
Express this interest in what it says: Do not stay like that, do not feel interested enough, show it. Respond appropriately
: It is very important that we look the words to respond, we must try to express my best and if you do not understand, ask more if their cultures are so different like ours. James 1:9
19 Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger Practice
communicate well because many are not very good in our relations for this ally that we need to be our lives, do not forget:
When we learn to listen, learn to talk, listen well, avoid misunderstandings and conflicts. MIA